4/17/2009

April 17- Some Free Advice

Joshua 15:1-63
Luke 18:18-43
Psalm 86:1-17
Proverbs 13:9-10
Proverbs 13- 10 Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.

I recall a few years ago trying to give a friend some Christian advice. Moments later, he and I were in an argument. Now, I can't say that my delivery was great (although I don't recall being to harsh or self-righteous). Regardless, my friend's response showed me that he wasn't the kind of fellow who took advice very well. Have you ever been there? Have you ever been on either side of the conversation (either as the giver or as the taker of advice)? Fact is, how we handle a rebuke, a challenge, or even godly advice demonstrates something about our character. As a rule, I have tried very hard to be willing to take what people have to throw at me. Yes, sometimes that advice isn't given in love. Have you ever heard "Now don't take this the wrong way, but..." before? Sure, not all advice is given in a manner that shines with loving kindness. Still, God calls us to a higher standard. He wants us to learn to give and even take advice like a follower of Jesus should. So, that's my advice to you. Take it or leave it.

2 comments:

Warren Baldwin said...

Good thoughts. Prov. 19:25 - "Rebuke a discerning man and he will gain knowledge." Advice may be hard to take, but if it is for our good, it leads to greater wisdom. WB

Chris Johnson said...

Exactly. Thanks for the good thought Warren!